Everyone has secrets, and couples often hide things from each other. Some secrets are harmless, while others can lead to a breakup.
I found out my wife was actually 7 years older than she claimed, which surprised me. She was tiny and looked young, so it wasn’t obvious until paperwork revealed the truth.
My ex-wife got pregnant before we married to qualify for state health care, knowing her mom couldn’t pay for her insurance anymore.
After our divorce, I learned she hid $81k in debt from her first marriage, claiming I was responsible for half.
I discovered my husband liked wearing women’s clothing when I found him in my panties and robe playing video games.
After marriage, I found napkins stained with lipstick in my pockets. My wife accused me of infidelity, but later I found over 40 napkins in her drawer—she was trying to set me up for a prenup payout.
My husband hid that he wasn’t taking his antipsychotics, which led to a psychotic break on our honeymoon.
I found out my wife planned to leave me after having two children to live off her parents’ support.
After 16 years of marriage, I found a paper where my wife argued that monogamy was unnatural and marriage a scam.
After our divorce, I learned my ex-wife had given away two children and had her tubes tied during our marriage.
My ex-wife also hid that she had an out-of-country son and was divorced before we married. We had a fun five years, but the divorce was a relief.
I found a letter from my wife confessing her affair and unhappiness. I left immediately and have been much happier since.
I found out my husband had been charged in a robbery 13 years before we married and had to serve a sentence after our wedding.
