{"id":7888,"date":"2025-10-01T19:39:56","date_gmt":"2025-10-01T19:39:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/?p=7888"},"modified":"2025-10-01T19:39:56","modified_gmt":"2025-10-01T19:39:56","slug":"my-brother-got-3-women-pregnant-then-told-me-a-truth-i-wasnt-ready-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/?p=7888","title":{"rendered":"My Brother Got 3 Women Pregnant\u2014Then Told Me A Truth I Wasn\u2019t Ready For"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"78\" data-end=\"363\">My brother Elian has three kids by three women and constantly asks me for money. Recently, he announced another pregnancy. I snapped: \u201cGet a vasectomy! Why do you keep having kids you can\u2019t afford?\u201d He paused, then admitted, \u201cI think I\u2019m trying to make up for something I can\u2019t fix.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"365\" data-end=\"586\">It turned out he\u2019d lost a baby with a college girlfriend, Ayda, years ago and never healed. He\u2019d spiraled\u2014dropping out, couch-surfing, barely holding a job. His kids now were his attempt to atone, even if unconsciously.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"588\" data-end=\"793\">I stopped enabling him. No more money, no more crutches. At first he was furious. Then a car accident and a wake-up call pushed him to start small: steady work, sending child support, showing up on time.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"795\" data-end=\"916\">A year later, he\u2019s getting a vasectomy, going back to school, and finally present for his kids. Not perfect\u2014but trying.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"918\" data-end=\"1043\">Sometimes helping someone means letting them face consequences, and sometimes it takes a lifetime to finally choose better.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; My brother Elian has three kids by three women and constantly asks me for money. Recently, he announced another pregnancy. I snapped: \u201cGet a vasectomy! Why do you keep having kids you can\u2019t afford?\u201d He paused, then admitted, \u201cI think I\u2019m trying to make up for something I can\u2019t fix.\u201d It turned out he\u2019d &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7779,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7888","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7888","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7888"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7888\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7889,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7888\/revisions\/7889"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7779"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7888"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7888"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7888"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}