{"id":4863,"date":"2025-06-23T22:02:31","date_gmt":"2025-06-23T22:02:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/?p=4863"},"modified":"2025-06-23T22:02:31","modified_gmt":"2025-06-23T22:02:31","slug":"my-mother-chose-her-golden-child-over-me-but-grandma-didnt-let-her-get-away-with-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/?p=4863","title":{"rendered":"My Mother Chose Her Golden Child Over Me \u2014 But Grandma Didn\u2019t Let Her Get Away With It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"155\" data-end=\"349\">At 32, standing in the rain by my grandmother\u2019s grave, I realized some wounds never fully heal\u2014they just become part of you. My grandmother was the only one who gave me true, unconditional love.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"351\" data-end=\"543\">Nearby, my mother Pamela stood dry under an umbrella with her perfect family\u2014her husband Charlie and their son Jason\u2014never meeting my eyes. She chose Jason over me long ago, leaving me behind.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"545\" data-end=\"727\">At ten, she sent me to live with Grandma, saying, \u201cYou don\u2019t fit in our family.\u201d Grandma\u2019s home became my safe haven, filled with love and care, but the pain of abandonment lingered.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"729\" data-end=\"849\">I asked Grandma why my mother didn\u2019t love me. She said, \u201cSome people are broken and hurt others to hide their own pain.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"851\" data-end=\"995\">Years later, at a family dinner meant to reconnect, my mother ignored me, giving attention only to Jason and dismissing the card I made for her.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"997\" data-end=\"1024\">That day, I stopped trying.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; At 32, standing in the rain by my grandmother\u2019s grave, I realized some wounds never fully heal\u2014they just become part of you. My grandmother was the only one who gave me true, unconditional love. Nearby, my mother Pamela stood dry under an umbrella with her perfect family\u2014her husband Charlie and their son Jason\u2014never &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4864,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4863","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4863","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4863"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4863\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4865,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4863\/revisions\/4865"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4864"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4863"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4863"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifevibesever.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4863"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}